A man on men

There is a problem with men in this world. When we interact with women, all we think about is sex; do we want, don't we want, how to communicate what we want. We don't believe in situations getting automatically towards a good ending when we just open our mind and set ourselves as well as the other person free. Free of expectations, free of sooner-than-necessary control, free of funny thoughts. It is difficult for us to understand what is a feeling, what is the other person feeling, due to heavy historical weight we tend to carry in our backs in many of these situations. This weight may build of varying ingredients but the amount is easily the same amongst us all. If we are able to rid ourselves of this weight, we experience our eyes open to see the similarities in the different, to feel our good heart be free.

Things may sometimes be difficult due to the link from our body to our subconscious to our communication. So when we notice things going wrong, we should wake ourselves up by thinking once more over, who am I, who is she, what is our relation. When we do this, we will find everything back on track again.

(2010-06-12, amendment)